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Dear Friends,

2009 is well under way now. The cold January in Minnesota is over and we are now looking forward to spring. This year will be a challenging year for all of us as the layoffs and the fragile economy hits close to home. These are unique times we have not lived through before but we, Americans, always pull together and push through. That’s the one piece of history we can be sure of and count on.

As we strive to achieve balance in our lives, we must remember to also balance the fear we may be feeling these days. There is so much information thrown at us, there is the reality of our own lives, and there is the uncertainty of the future. So, how much do we worry? How much do we not worry about? We can’t just sit back and relax while our friends and relatives (or even ourselves) are getting laid off and losing their jobs. At the same time, we can’t worry so much that it affects our health.

If you recently received the news that your job will be eliminated, don’t panic. There are things you can do to get back on track. I know in this economy it will be harder but for God nothing is impossible and He can connect you and give you new opportunities in the midst of economic chaos. Today, I would like to share with you some ideas on how you can have some balance during these times and how you can help your friends who may have lost their jobs.

 First, you need to pray and ask God for direction. Don’t go at this alone. He will give you the wisdom, grace, hope, and strength to go through this experience.

 If you don’t always have your resume ready and up to date, you need to do that immediately. Ask a few of your friends who do hiring as part of their jobs to review your resume and give you feedback. It is important to provide a professional resume that is to the point and provides pertinent information. Include an objective, a summary of your skills, and then list each job with dates and the tasks you performed along with your accomplishments. Resumes should be in chronological order from most recent to oldest and should be easy to read and have absolutely no typos in them.

 Start setting up meetings (coffee is the least expensive) with people you know that can connect you to companies within the industry you’re interested in working at. Bring your resume to every meeting.

 Print business cards with your personal information such as name, address, email address and phone number where people can reach you. This is a good idea to have even when you’re not looking for a job.

 Post your resume in the Internet in web sites such as www.monster.com. Many companies sign up with these types of services to recruit candidates.

 Look in associations’ web sites for job opportunities. For example, in banking we use the Minnesota Bankers Association to post positions available. You, as a candidate, can look in their web site for an opportunity that you may be interested in.

If you are employed, then make an effort to help your friends who may be looking. Below are some ideas of what you can do to help them:

 Encourage them to continue the search and to not give up.
 Connect them with people you think may be able to help them.
 Follow up with them to ensure they are still looking or simply to encourage them again.
 Pray for them daily and ask God to help them find a job.
 If you can help them with their resumes then take the time to do it. You can do this easily through emails.

As you can see, there are things we can do to help ourselves and help each other. The most important thing though is to not lose hope and to encourage one another as we go through these tough times knowing that God does care for us.

Send me your thoughts and any other tips for our friends by posting a comment.

Until next time.

Marci Malzahn

Dear Friends,
Having a balanced life is one of my priorities in my life and I am on a quest to find it on a daily basis. As we prepare for the Holiday season, keep in mind that you need to have balance in all you do so you can enjoy the most beautiful season of the year. Here are some tips to remind you to stay in balance:
1) Start shopping a little at a time within the next few weeks so you don’t have to shop for everything on the last weekend right before Christmas.
2) If you have little kids to shop for (nieces and nephews), ask the parents what the kids would like (i.e. ask for specific sizes for clothes and what brands or names of toys). This will help you save time when you go shopping.
3) If you are planning to have family over for Christmas, start preparing your home in advance. You can start cleaning different sections of your home a few days prior to the gathering. This will help you not be overwhelmed the day you are having people over.
4) Remember to also have balance in how much you spend. Don’t feel guilty if you cannot buy a lot of presents or spend a lot of money this year. Everybody has been affected by the slower economy and people are not expecting others to spend a lot of money.
5) Most of all, don’t forget the real reason why we celebrate Christmas. It is to celebrate the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ who came into the world to save us and to give us life. He cares about everything we do and wants us to live a successful and balanced life too.

Dear Friends,

I decided to start a blog to connect with other working women who are in search of work and life balance. I will be posting interesting topics that will help you achieve the life balance you desire. These are tips I have used in my journey of life as a full-time working mother, author, and executive to help me balance my daily life. Below is the first one of many to come. I hope it will help you in some way.

Balance Your Life One Season at a Time
Fall is usually a very busy season as we wind down from summer and start our next set of activities. In the midst of it all, we tend to forget to take care of ourselves and we get out of balance. Below are some tips to help you stay in balance:
 
 

 

  • Establish your priorities: This way, as you have the opportunity to get involved in new things, and before you say yes to new commitments, you can ask yourself the question: Does this new activity/task/commitment fall under my priorities in life? If the answer is yes, then ask yourself another question:
  • What can I take out of my life in order to add one more thing? If the answer is nothing, don’t commit as this new activity may through you out of balance.
  • It’s okay to say no: Learn to say “no” and be okay with that. You have the right to decline and not feel guilty about it.
  • Make time to exercise: Walking is one of the best exercises there is and it doesn’t cost any money — only time. I love to jog but right now I’m choosing to walk with my husband instead. This way, I’m spending time with him and I’m getting my exercise done at the same time. Make a goal to exercise at least three times per week doing something you like. If you don’t make the time and schedule it, it won’t happen. We have to take care of our bodies so they last and we can accomplish all we need to get done.
  • Don’t forget your friendships: Make time to call or go to lunch with a friend at least once a week. It is refreshing to go out with a friend and just talk and catch up with each other’s lives. If you don’t nurture your relationships, they will eventually go away.